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writes:Okay my boyfriend is really sweet but he keeps smacking other girls butts and he lies everytime i bring it up what should i do? I have been going out with him for 5 months and i don't want to lose him. Please answer this Reply to this Question
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reader, Kyle007 +, writes (13 April 2012):
OK, in addition to the many people here and everywhere else (and you already know this yourself) telling you to drop this guy, I will say the same thing.
But why even put up with it the first time?
This will make it easier for you:
People put up with bad situations because there are real or imagined benefits from it. Obviously, this guy must really be doing something for you that you can't let go of.
Is he buying you things? Is he giving you lots of attention? Has he got you convinced that you can't find anyone else besides him?
So whatever it is, you have to realize that this is a lie of a relationship, don't believe anything he says, and that you have to part with any "benefit" he is giving you.
Its so not worth it.
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reader, jinxx  +, writes (13 April 2012):
 You might not want to lose him, but you should!
If my boyfriend was going around groping other women, I would drop-kick him to the curb. There's some things you just don't do, and he's doing them. Respect yourself enough to realize you deserve better, and move on.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (13 April 2012):
 He sounds creepy, why so insistent on "keeping" him?
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reader, YouWish +, writes (13 April 2012):
 He's your age? 13-15?
Trust me, you *want* to lose him. Being immature is one thing. Being a liar is a really really bad trait in a boyfriend.
He needs to be careful -- sexual harassment and unwanted sexual touching can get him in trouble at school, especially if a girl complains about it to a teacher or the principal.
Person is right -- it's GROPING. That's creepy, creepy CREEPY. I say again -- you not only want to lose him, but you should do it as fast as possible. To not is to invite a LOT of trouble upon yourself.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (13 April 2012):
 This guy has no regard for you and behaves like an animal. You want to be with a guy who treats women like meat? If any of those girls decides to speak up he could be in serious trouble for sexual harassment (assault if it's considered groping).
You should leave him and find someone with more respect for you and for girls in general.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2012): Dump him! You deserve much better and there are plenty of good guys out there who will want to date you.
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reader, Shadow Rose +, writes (13 April 2012):
 This guy obviously doesn't have any regard for your feelings! That's not love, dear....
You need to find someone better than him. He's obviously a liar and a pervert (To some, his behavior is considered cheating), and you can do better!
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