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female
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36-40,
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writes:I am crazy in love with one of my classmates. He had had a bad breakup about 3 years ago and he says he'll never stop regretting it and that it's the biggest mistake he's ever made in his whole life. He tells me about the stuff he used to do with her and gets so sad. But it seems he likes me now. He was the first one of us to add the other on fb and he did a nice surprise for my birthday and now that i gave him my number, he calls me every day sometimes at late night and sometimes during the daytime. And sometimes we end up talking nonsense for almost an hour. Sometimes he really wants to talk to me and he's like 'Hey call me whatever time, I'll be up, waiting". He is always teasing me and now the entire class thinks he likes me and I like him. He seems jealous when other guys come to talk to me and starts asking me what they said and all. And he tells me not to trust boys. And once he told me, 'Your voice is so sexy right now!' I really love to talk to him and see him. But I feel like he wants me but he's scared to commit. I don't know if this is how he treats all his lady friends, but he makes me feel like I'm special to him. How can I tell if he's just leading me on or if he's actually ever going to say anything?? Will he say he likes me sooner or later or what if he never does?? What should I do? I don't want to be waiting for him to say something for forever. I love him a lot and I really want to be with him. But I just don't know if he's interested in me or not. What am I going to do? Do you think he likes me in a special way? Please help. I'm so confused.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (14 April 2012):
 He is interested in you but is cautious to go into another serious relationship. I would find out what caused his last relationship break down and I would, through talking to him, show that you are a different person and have better problem solving skills. Hopefully that would lessen his anxiety about committing. You can also start to hang out more than just talking on the phone. Maybe doing things together and having fun consistently is more effective in breaking the ice.
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