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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: My boyfriend is an average looking guy to me a bit chubby but to me the personality is what makes a person attractive and that's why I find him attractive. The only problem is that we don't share any interests but we at least give each other a chance in trying them. Also, I like men with ambitions I feel like it's an important character in a partner and I love learning and aiming high and going further in life, but my bf doesn't. He has a decent job and he comes from an avg family and my family and friends always push me to over think this all because we come from a rich family and to them looks,job and family status is imp and it's stressing me out!!!I'm so confused we've been together for 7 months!!I'm nt inlove with him but I do love him...I don't open up easily!?what should I do!?
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (13 April 2012):
Just imagine, if your family approves of him, would that change things? Would that make you open up to him? It's you who decide what makes you happy. You need to decide if your connection to your family is more important than who you marry. Maybe his ambition is to live a simple life and have a happy family life. If you don't find his ambition exciting some other girl will.
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