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writes:So it all started 3 weeks ago when I decided to by a motorcycle, she was all for it! I got it a week ago and now everyday seems to be a battle! I work 50hours a week so I have little time to do anything! We have been together for just over a year and she has two children with no father around so I stepped up and act like one to them! I treat them all so well and would never do anything to hurt them, only the best for them! Now everytime I'm gonna go for a ride she is giving me crap over nothing so in the end I don't even enjoy my bike! I don't know what I'm trying to ask here but any feed back would be great! Thankyou! Reply to this Question
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reader, Daisylove  +, writes (27 June 2011):
i have had the same form of situation with my partner expect i was the girlfriend so maybe i can use my feelings to show maybe how she is feeling.
so i started off all ok in hope that my partner would see i was not happy. In the end the motorcylce came and i was worried constantly the fangers on them things is unreal! and i would spent the full time wondering if my partner would ever return.
Also i felt replaced. My partner is at college, so balancing school, work, football, friends, family i felt like this motorcycle took over my time so yes i guess you could say i was jelous of this motorcylce.
in the end i talked to my partner and explained how i was feeling and the motorcyle was never seen again.
just talk to her and see how she is feeling about it and do your best to understand. ps. well done about being a "father" you sound like a great man, goodluck!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 June 2011):
I've got this sneaking suspicion in the back of my mind that she wasn't happy about you getting this bike in the first place. I wonder if she did the classic thing and remained quiet in the hope that you'd see she wasn't happy, rather than just come out and say she was unhappy.
Whatever the reason, you need to talk to her and ask her what has changed so suddenly, and why she is behaving this way.
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