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I don't want to lose my virginity just like that, but I am getting to restless waiting for sex!

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Question - (27 June 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 June 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hello friends im a 20yrs old guy and being a virgin is eating me up,,

i mean i dont want to lose it just like that,, like waiting for some special person,, but sometimes i get too restless,, but i dont feel like going to a prostitute.

i dont know what to do.

i dont even know how to talk. im not even attractive...

any helps??????????/

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A female reader, RedAthena United States +, writes (27 June 2011):

RedAthena agony auntIf you do not want to lose your virginity in casual or paid sex, then do you want a relationship with someone?

You are going to have to decide exactly WHAT you want that is best for you, and decide how to get there.

If you want a relationship that includes sex, you are going to have to become a bit more mature, work on your self-esteem and social skills.

The MOST attractive quality about a man is not his looks, which will fade, but his personality and confidence.

If you want someone to actually care about you in a sexual relationship, then you need to learn to socialize better with women you would consider dating. Learn to see them MORE than just an opportunity to have sex with.

Yes, that will take patience.

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A male reader, Welsh Uncle Dave United Kingdom +, writes (27 June 2011):

Let's put it this way, i'd rather have a one-night stand to lose my virginity than a prostitute.

Don't even entertain the idea of paying for sex.

There's nothing wrong with you waiting for someone special, and to be frank, the first time people have sex, more often than not they wonder what the fuss is all about.

It's only when you start having sex regularly and you and your partner learn how to push each others' buttons so to speak, is when it properly becomes enjoyable

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