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36-40,
*rokensoul
writes:I love my boyfriend to death and would do absolutely anything for him,and i do, but i'm just not happy anymore. I don't feel appreciated, wanted, or loved. There is absolutely no affection, when I try and be affectionate with him whether it be cuddling or just sitting close to him on the couch, I get pushed away. He never tells me i'm beautiful anymore, never lets me know he wants me, and just never wants to do anything. He's starting to be controlling too. If I go out with my girlfriends he gets mad, tries to give me curfews and "acceptable" times to come home, and i dont even live with him! He makes me feel bad about going out, makes me feel bad about having a life and a good time with friends. I just don't know what to do anymore. We argue over stupid stuff like where we are going to go eat. I try and make pros and cons lists but it just doesn't work, the only pro that i can come up with is I know I will always have company. When do you know enough is enough.. Do you take a break and let him see what he is missing.. or do you just end it all together. I just dont know what to do anymore... HELP!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2011): This is similar to a realationship i was in but over the months the strain became to much my heart was saying stay an tough it out my head was saying i deserve better in the end i gave up and i am so much happier with my life
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reader, Lobsang Kalden +, writes (27 June 2011):
If you love your boyfriend to death, as you said, then you will always be the winner, since there is no losing in loving. Concentrate on that feeling of love and everything else will take care of itself.
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