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writes:Hello,I am 23 but never had a girlfriend. I met this girl at a friend's house; we have a mutual friend. She gave me compliments about some of my facial features. I like this girl and want to know her more. what should I do? Is asking her out on a date the right thing to do or should I ask her for a coffee or something? I should also mention that I didn't ask her number because I didn't know if it was the right thing to do. I am not a risk taker and prefer to take things slowly.I appreciate your advice.THanks.
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reader, goalstopper +, writes (5 July 2011):
You can start slow by just talking to her.I know it might be scary but it's what life is all about overcoming your fears and what not. I would ask her just that. I want to get to know you better, can I have coffee with you? If she says no, then she isn't interested in you and find someone else. No harm no foul. If she says yes, then set a date and congrats buddy. Obviously, the next time you see her. You also might want to get her number. Just play it cool and you will be fine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys. I know what you are saying is correct. but because I have never done it, I can't "just do it." It sounds scarier than what it seems, especially when you wanna get it right! Can you give me some examples of what YOU would do if you were in my situation?
UPDATE: she is on the rebound (i think she was dumped)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2011): There is no "right" thing to do.
Do what you feel is right, and try not to make it awkward.
If you want to date this girl, show interest and ask her out somewhere.
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reader, goalstopper +, writes (27 June 2011):
just do it. take the risk.
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