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*aisylove
writes:Ok so i am a female with a female partner, aka. we are a lesbian couple. Our sex is great and i love it, just not as much as her. She wants it every second. I am lucky if i want it at least once a week, and it's getting me down as, although she will not show it, i know it's getting her down too. So i feel extremely guilty and i am desperate to want it more. Any advice? I don't even understand why i don't want it so much. Is there anything i can do to make me want it more?
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reader, Daisylove +, writes (28 June 2011):
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2011): I had a similar issue with my last heterosexual relationship. She wanted it a lot more frequently than I did. Some things that helped me were trying new things. Changing location, for us-condom and lube brands, positions, the music we listened to during, the spontaneity of it, the use of toys. Pretty much anything and everything. It made it more fun to try the new stuff we talked about. For me, the idea of trying these things made me want to more, then I just started wanting more of the new things. You just have to find what works for you. It can be a hard thing at times, but if you both want to make it work, you can! Best of luck!
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