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writes:well I break up with my boyfriend like 2 days ago, I reazlie that I did not love him anymore so....we both did agree to break up and think it was for the best because it was not working out but I still always thinking of him and I do miss him and the times we have together, we been together for 4 month almost 5, we have so many memory, I feel like I won't find another guy who take me as I am like my ex boyfriend did, I do miss him but I don't love him anymore....what can I do to get him off my mind? I can't even think straight with him on my mind so what can I do to get him off my mind?
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reader, SHANTELLAH  +, writes (28 June 2011):
 sweetie i will only advise you to forget about him and take time, you will meet someone when time goes by there are so many fishes in the sea. whats the use of thinkin about him when you dont love him,stop contacting him for good i know its not easy but just try atleast for your own benefits..............wish you all the best
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reader, Duckyhelp  +, writes (28 June 2011):
 If you know you dont love him and dont want to be with him then no contact and taking away things from your sight which will remind you of him. If you are not reminded then slowly you will stop missing him. You feel you miss him cause you are used to speaking so much to one another. so now you are not taking it is hard to go back to what life was before that. It is completely normal.Just stick to focusing on you and seeing friends and family to occupy you and then you will have many new happy memories!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2011): If you are sure you don't love him anymore, well then there is no point in the two of you being together.
I will say though don't confuse love with the "spark" because when two people are together that intense spark you felt the first few weeks together fades somewhat and you need to look at whether you can inject that feeling back into the relationship.
After a few months the excitement dies down in every relationship. Ask yourself why you don't love him anymore, did his personality change since you met him?
If not then ask yourself if it is just the excitement of a new relationship that you crave, because if this is the case every relationship you have would only last a few months. If this is so then contact this guy and try to get things back on track.
Hope I helped.x
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