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writes: Hello. I desperately need to get this out my mind..so please bear with me. I'm having a LDR with my bf of 3 months. This is the third month and we're talking about one of his friend. Iasked my bf is his friend is seeing someone ? He said.. he got a sex buddy. Somehow by talking about this sex friend..he got a little horny by the idea of having a sex friend. But he assured me it's just an idea and he's not going to do it or cheat on me because he knows how I feel about cheating. For the record, I'm Asian and he's European (French) and I can't accept the idea of having a sex friend or even a threesome. He then told me he's not looking because he wants someone who he can share his life with..not just only sex. I can't get it out my head, since we're long distance. He got so excited about the idea of a sex friend and maybe he thinks since we're far away.. he could just have one since I won't know about it. Should I ask him to reassure me ? I'm pretty upset at this moment..................
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (27 June 2011):
 just coz he finds it sexy it really doesn't mean he will act on it. but if you are not a secure person then a LDR is probably not a good idea coz i cannot see that it will make you happy. i personally would not even entertain the idea of LDR coz i KNOW i am too jealous for one.
you ask if you should ask him for reassurance, he has already told you that he is not gonna get a FWB, but you asre still worried... so what further reassurance do you expect him to be able to give you,, i mean realistically, what do you want him to do/say that you think will ease your worries about this??
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