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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:So, recently in my choir class I've been always seeing this one guy looking at me at times and when I do look at him he smiles at me. You know, I love that feeling of when a really cute guy looks at you and or smiles. I get that feeling everyday! But this is new. I just started high school and I have one class with him and he's a year older than me. But I remember I had a huge crush on him when we were in middle school. We were both on our schools swim team and I've always thought he was so cute. But, being the stupid middle schooler that I was, I asked him out and he said no. And started dating this other girl. It was like a big slap in the face! But that's how it always in middle school. So like a week later they broke up, and I asked him out again. (again, being the stupid middle schooler that I was) he flipped out on me an said, "hell no, for the 10th time!" and that just freaking hurt. I was just an innocent middle schooler who didn't know anything about anything. But I think about a year later, he added me as a friend on Facebook. And I was a little confused about why he added me. So, I just straight up asked him if he was still mad at me. he said, "well, I was. But now we're cool." so everything felt better. He's the type of guy that every girl has a crush on, and I'm the type of girl that I would think he wouldn't be the type of guy to like me. I don't know, but you know, we've texted each other at a time. He's talked to me at football games. But now, that I always see him looking at me, I'm sort of attracted to him. I just hope he's grown up. Because we are so much alike, and I hope that he would think I'm attractive?
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (9 December 2011):
 He wants you to be his friend. He is too young and dumb, to see how much you are attracted to him. Be a good friend, and don't pin all your hopes on him. Save some attention for the other guys around you. I would bet that there is someone else trying to catch your eye. Be generous with your smiles. I would say you will have to wait until next summer for this guy but it's just a guess. BTW don't ask him, it seems to be important to him to be the leader.
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