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writes:HELLO; So after two years of heart ache and having to work with this guy I decided to end it within myself in even knowing him .He's always so bac and forth, talks to me, then is mean, I just can't take it anymore. He knows I care for him cuz that's how the feelings started, hw claimed he cared for me more than that too...neverthelss, a wedge was put between us due to jealous people/work place drama. I think I suceeded in pulling his root out of my heart. Now I'm noticing him looking at me more from afar, starring at me...I just keep doing my work and re focus my mind. Yesterday, he said what going on, instead of not saying anything to me,...I could only respond, Not much and keep walking over to my department...anyway...WHAT is he starring at me so much for?? He was the one who wanted to not be friends any more...WHY is he starring at me so much?? Will this pass??? Thanks cuz I don't want o get drawn into the back and forth again, my feelings were sincere, and it took to long to get him out of my system
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 December 2011):
 He keeps messing you about, playing mind games to get your attention. It is quite cruel on his part. When he told you he didn't want to be friends any more he probably didn't expect you to let go without a fight and now his ego is dented so he is looking at you to get a response out of you. Stay away from this guy he is not worth it. Just keep ignoring him. If he comes near you my advice would be to stay away from him.
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reader, synchrohobbit +, writes (9 December 2011):
 This sounds like a classic case of "I don't want what I can have, but I really want what I can't." When he knew you were still pining for him it was easy to let you come and go into his life when he wanted, but now that he senses you have uprooted him (great analogy) he sees he might be missing something. Guys like this are immature, so my best advice to you is stay strong in your resolve until he has realized you aren't playing hard to get, and you have actually moved on.
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