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writes:Does anyone have any stories of casual things turning into something more? I've been seeing this guy casually and it's been great. Neither of us want relationships at the moment so we're both very happy with the way things are. Thing is, we talk every day, sometimes a two or three times, our friends all think that we're going out (we haven't explained what our situation is to them because we feel it's none of their business), we hold hands in public and we go out together. We still see ourselves as just friends, but sometimes I wonder if we're being too coupley for "just friends" and why.I'm not really looking for this to go further than it is, but I sometimes wonder if we seem to be headed down that path and what I should do about it. If the timing is right, I can't guarantee that I'd say no to a relationship, but I also can't guarantee that I won't run for the hills.Any opinions? Reply to this Question
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (10 December 2011):
The main question should be "Do you both know what you feel and what can you expect from this?"This kind of relationship usually go wrong when one person starts to feel (or want) more than the other.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (10 December 2011):
 Enjoy yourself.. why worry
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reader, supermum +, writes (10 December 2011):
 Are you having fun? If things are working out for you at the moment, then leave them as they are. When you start over thinking things too much, things tend to change for the worse. My advice? Enjoy it. If it naturally progresses to more, then you can both talk about it. But at the moment, I just see two people that enjoy each others company x
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