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female
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30-35,
*ooki__11
writes:I met this guy at work and initially he seemed really into me. We hung out after work one night and had a great time. He got my number, then text me saying we should hang out again soon and he called me gorgeous etc. 2 weeks passed and he didnt text me. I then saw him at work again after the 2 weeks. He said hi, but I was a lil pissed that he didnt msg again so I was really cold to him. He text me that nite noting that I didnt really have time to chat. I replied, but very shortly. Later I realised that I think this guy is pretty cute and maybe I would like to persue him more actively (usually I dont do anything I wait for the guy to call first etc). So I sent him a random text with a lil bit of flirting. He replied a day later (he apologised about the lateness he said his phone was having issues). I dont know where to go from here. Do you think he is just not into me, since those 2 weeks passed and he didnt msg me? How should I reply? I dont want to be too flirty in case he rejects me, but if he like me I dont want to lose this by being cold? Do you think he is into me or not? Or just a player?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (9 December 2011):
 I think you don't know him and he doesn't know you, and before you can say whether he likes you or not you need to get to know him better. You've barely sent a few texts, that's nothing to base anything on. If you are curious about him and interesting in getting to know him then contact him more and make your moves. If he responds then he is interested in getting to know you as well. So far though there's not been enough communication to say anything about his interest in you, as well you have been cold and short with him so why should he want to pursue you? If you want to get to know him open up a bit and flirt and see what happens.
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