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female
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anonymous
writes: me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years and 4 months and i couldnt possibly love him any more than i do now which is a hell of a lot. about a month ago he had sex with another girl behind my back. i found out about it and confronted him. at first he denied it but the truth finaly came out that he had done the dirty on me. he promised that he would never do it again and he also told me that it was a mistake because he had a bit to much 2 drink and i was the only girl tha he loves and will only ever love. he also gets really jealous if i speak or go round boyz he wont confrount me in front of them, he will speak to me about it wen we are alone. but what topped it off we were arguin the other day and he chucked up that drunen night with tha girl. so does he really mean what he says? please could you help me i dont want to waste my life with an idiot if thats what he is?? xxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007): if u havent left him yet..do so..iv had many relationships that went like that and it only gets worse,plus i got too drunk one night and cheated on my then boyfriend,we're now engaged,it was a drunken mistake but no matter what goes on i wont mention it,cos i love him,if i wanted to hurt him i probably would,but i kno that i love him to much and would never want to hurt him again,i still feel th guilt almost a year on,in a strange way it brought us closer cos we realised how much we meant to each other wen we thought we were gonna lose each other(tho i wouldnt advise anyone to do it)we're stronger and more in love than ever,that night never gets mentioned tho it still haunts me sometimes as i imagine it does him,if he brings it up he doesnt love you or respect you,which you deserve
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