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writes:I have been dating a guy for the past eight months. I am a very attractive female. My boyfriend is the average joe. He is a part-time musician. A while back he had to perform and I accompanied him. During one of the half hour breaks that he had a man came up to shake his hand and said to him " You are a very lucky man" At which my boyfriend replied to him. "No she is the lucky one" I was devastated to say the least but I showed no evidance of that. I thought the guy was paying him a compliment. I am very concerned as well because he has showed me no signs on wanting to have a future with me or my children that I have even though found out through his webpage he is looking for his soulmate. I have taken my time on this relatioship. Should I end this even though we have wonderful times? Is that all it is going to be?
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reader, rcn +, writes (11 September 2007):
 If he's not on there checking his messages and options, I wouldn't worry too much about it. Just letting a site sit with no action, doesn't mean much. He may think it's not too important to change it if he's not using it. I could see something like that happening.
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reader, augestina +, writes (11 September 2007):
augestina is verified as being by the original poster of the question I should of made myself clearer. I'm sorry but when I did meet him, I met him though a website. He still has the same page and has never altered his profile and he hasn't been on this website for a long time. But you would think he would of changed his profile.
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reader, samohir  +, writes (10 September 2007):
 Honest and straighforward communication can solve the problem. I dont know how long have you been together, but id doesnt matter.The time is always right to do or ask what is right. If i were in your shoes , i would ask him, to avoid any further doubts and to know where we re standing.But, That is just my way of doing things.Just remmember that no ona can recall the passed time, its running and surely you dont want to spend it on somebody that will not fit in what you want in future. So, go ahead and ask him.You re missing other opportunities, and the longer it takes the more u will feel anxious about whole issue. Hope i was helpful, Good luck
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reader, rcn +, writes (10 September 2007):
If he's looking for someone else, it's time to end it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007): If after he has met you he is STILL looking for his soulmate "online" then I guess you are not the one for him. If you guys have wonderful times and you are strong enough to handle a casual relationship with him with no expectations and perhaps even no strings attached, then by all means continue this relationship. But if you really would like something more then why waste your time on him any longer?? Move on.
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