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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:dont think im being big headed but..lots of boys ask me out and things buttwhen i do start goin out with themand im with them and things i always mess it upand end it like 4 days or even a day after because i get scared that my body isent right and because they have done things with girls before me that they might think ergh u should of seen her..or she was rubbish and things like that and tell all there friendsi really would love to have a long relationship and the last boy i was with did too and then i went and blew it because i got scared!! and i really like him but know he doesent want to know because he thinks im a lier and im ignorant!! :(
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (11 September 2007):
 maybe you should start with your self confidence, theres something good about everybody and theres something about everybody that's completely different.... once u start with your confidence and then ur school work and then maybe consider the guys again, becuase no offence babe but ur only gonna hurt them as you've seen.mail please if u wanna chat x
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reader, carchick +, writes (10 September 2007):
 i ahev that too maybe u should just concentrate on ur work instead of bois theres plenty of time for bois
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reader, Jualsy  +, writes (10 September 2007):
 It might be a good idea if you could accept the fact that a lot of people get together and stay together becasue of WHO they are and not just what they APPEAR to be. You can be the sort of pwerson someone wants to stay close to and value and have in their lives by spending time realising that it isn't all about your body or comparing yourself to other girls. That is shallow and relationships like that can be in deep trouble before they get off the ground.
Val;ue yourself and see what a difference that makes....remember we TEACH people how to treat us, and if they treat you well you wouldn't want to walk would you???? Your choice.
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