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female
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41-50,
*indone
writes:my boyfriend cheated on me when he was drunk and he cant remember anything, but she does. he cant remember finishing the deed and he usualy cant, so should i believe that he cant remember anything and cant remember finishing?
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (14 September 2007):
Why have a boyfriend who drinks so much he can't remember what he does? The evidence says he had sex with her. Time to pick a better boyfriend.
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reader, kindone +, writes (14 September 2007):
kindone is verified as being by the original poster of the question i know he was drunk and i know he cant remember. he drinks on occasion here and most times he can remember the next morning even talking to me. i do forgive him but i will never orget and hes got alot of making up to do i got rid of any numbers or anything that could harm our relatonship. he didnt like the girl and he was caught in the moment and it wont happen again he doen't want to loose me or my kids and he knows he will if he does it agien. lesson learned but all of this don't ever let you partner drive someone home alone drunk or not. thanks for your answers.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (10 September 2007):
Dump him because he's a drunk. What he did while he was drunk is the least of your problems.
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reader, jm81690  +, writes (10 September 2007):
 Well, I don't know, he may not remember "finishing the deed" but if he hooked up with another woman, no matter how drunk he was, he'd remember.Is he an honest guy, or do you think he'd tell you what you want to hear and lead you on rather than facing the music?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007): It depends on what type of man your boyfriend is. If it was a mistake and you feel he is really sorry and is willing to work on it, forgive him. If it is in his character to be emotionally neglectful to your needs, dump him. Once a man knows he can walk all over you ignoring what you NEED, what you tell him you need, he will ALWAYS do it again. He knows then that you are a sucker and will always take him back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007): It should not matter of if he remembers or not. The fact is, he did it. If you think maybe there is a chance he didn't do it, then have a sit-down with the both of them and the truth will come out.What you need to ask yourself is: Is that something you are willing to forgive and put completely in the past? There is no need dwelling on if he tells you something right now. That can come later.
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