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writes:Ive been seeing this boy for 2 months now. I really, really like him and so I think I should stop seeing him cos Im scared of getting hurt. I feel like Im falling for him already - I always want to be with him, Im worried when a day goes by and he hasn't made contact, Im thinking about him most of the time - but I know he doesnt feel the same. I know he likes me but I know that I like him more and Im worried that I will scare him off by feeling this way. How can I become more relaxed and laid back and seem that I dont feel so strongly for him?Also, Im scared hes going off me. This morning he didnt seem the same and when he dropped me off he didnt kiss me goodbye or say when he would call, he just said see you later. What am I supposed to think?!!!I think I should back off for a few days, leave him to contact me and spend some time doin stuff that I enjoy and not think about him, do you think that this is right? Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007): It sounds like your a codependent person. Look up "Codependency". When you value another persons love above your own and your willing to sacrifice anything for it. You should never put your heart out to someone as you have when you do not know if they have put theres out. Ask yourself why you pick men who want to ignore you. Theres a reason.
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reader, Gemini1506 +, writes (10 September 2007):
I think you should slow down a bit.And dont take things he says or does too seriously.Dont break up with him because your scared of getting hurt. You have to take that chance.Do small things like wait for him to call first or text you first.best of luck
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