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41-50,
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writes:Tell me if she is interested i'm having mixed signals. Here is why i think she is and why not.Why i think she is:- for her bday i gave her a rose and poem and she said that i made her day and that she really liked the gift a lot. She looked very happy.- when i talk to her she really tries to listen and nods her head when i speak to her- at our latest date she said that she was willing to go out with me again without me even asking her- she always returns my phone calls if she doesn’t pick up.Why i think she is not:- she completely forgot about a date we were supposed to have a few weeks ago. However she told me she felt very bad about it and was willing to make it up.- she always seems busy for a date but is always telling me to try some other day.- when i confronted her that i like her, she said not to get my "hopes to high" and that she developed a "barrier" to men from her previous relationship. However she didn't want to stop talking with me then and was always telling me to keep on walking with her.- she mentioned another guy that called her in front of her friends that may possible be interested in her.- she rarely calls me first, i have to be the one to call her all the time.To me it seems like this girl is sitting on the fence and is afraid of rejection and at the same time doesn’t want to be truly commited with me. I really have strong feelings for her and we have been going out for about 2 and a half months. Is she interested ? Reply to this Question
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reader, pavel38  +, writes (10 September 2007):
Are you sure you're "going out" with this girl ?. You mention dates etc. but, and forgive me if I'm wrong, but it seems that what you call a date is actually just spending time with a friend, which is easily done. At least it seems that is the view she views it, as more of a friendship than a romantic commitment. If you can handle your feelings and stay close with her then hang in there and it may work out, but don't get too optimistic. Sorry.
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