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36-40,
*ica
writes:So my boyfriend and I have known each other for 3 years. We dated once before for 6 months, when he broke it off saying he didn't love me anymore and that he was bored, etc. After that, he hooked up with MANY girls and we both dated around until we once again got into a serious relationship about a year ago. Well, I'm still having trust issues. I've found multiple online dating/ personals/ sex websites that he belongs to and when I asked him about them, he said they were old, that it was just for fun, curiosity whatever... ALthough I also found e-mails from girls (when we weren't together) arranging to meet up for sex.I've told him how I feel about it, but he still continues to sign up for these local dating sites and I'm just wondering what the hell to think! Our relationship seems great if it weren't for these sites that make me think he's looking to cheat.How do you tell when a guy is taking this internet sex availablity further than just the computer??? Reply to this Question
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reader, evian..!  +, writes (10 September 2007):
ive had experience with this kind of situation before . All you can really do is trust him. speak to him about it if your really that concerned but dont accuse him of anything, because he might not even realise that his behaviour is reflecting badly on him. Good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007): He is definitely looking around because his needs are not being satisfied by you. This is not your problem, this is his problem. Don’t let him believe he can treat you like this. Can you honestly put faith in someone who is so deceptive? Love requires honesty and trust. Don’t sell your self out with this loser. He sounds like a child who likes playing games with his toys-you included. Put your foot down and if he messes up, stick to what you said you would do. This is more about having respect for your self then for him anyway. Stand up for yourself! You deserve it and you’re entitled to the love you need. Good luck
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