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writes:Hey people. I got a bit of a problem. Okay here's how it goes;I like two guys.They both have basicly the same classes with each other and thier good friends. Bob*not reall name* is in one of my classes and we get along very good and sometimes I think that he really likes me because of the way he looks at me and does wierd and funny things with me BUT alots of girls like him,even 1 of my friends.She liked him for about 2 years but he doesn't like her. Jake*not really name* lives right down the street from me and rides my bus.He always says hi to me,smiles at me,and acts all different (shy kinda)One of Jakes close friends told me that he kinda likes me. I really like both of them alot. Jake thinks to go out on a date at this age is dumb but it's cool to have a girlfriend. Bob thinks it's great to date.I really don't care.I don't know what to do!! What do you do when you like two guys but you are so clueless as to if they like you and thier both friends?? Can someone please help me find out what to do!!*hopeless* Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry guys!! I keep reply'n worse stuff.but I promise that this is the last reply with more news. :)
I asked Jake if he liked me and he said"YOu know I only like you as a friend,besides I have a crush on someone elese." DANG IT!!!!! Bob is gonna break up with his girlfriend for some reason that I don't know...you know what...no one knows. I'm stuck and I just wish I could make my feelings go away but they won't!!
This is my last call for help.After this I won't say anymore news so I can try to get things working on my own.
*hopeless*
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reader, penta +, writes (11 September 2007):
 If Bob has a girlfriend then you need to leave him alone. Never go after a guy who's dating someone else. Think of how you would feel if someone went after your guy?
As for Jake, the next time someone asks whether you're dating him, just say, "Not yet..." [smile wink]
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey guys To make my probelm alittle more cnfusing let me add the new news;Bob has a girlfriend but I know he likes me because of brother(really close friend) told me and he's one of my REALLY good friends. My really random friend walked up to Jake while we were in the lunch line and said do you like her?? He said as a friend.Before that I was talking before I got lunch and she said"You guys are such a cute couple" Jake just laughed and smiled at me. On the bus EVERYONE keeps asking guys if we like eachother and if we're going out and of course I say no because I don't want anyone to know I like him but everytime someone says that he just smiles and looks at me.Now more than ever me ALWAYS smiles at me and says hi even if I'm walking past him and he knows I can't sya hi back. I don't know what to do. Jake again thinks dates are dumb.I think I might go for him. Do you think Jake really does like me but doesn't want anyone to know?? What should I do next??
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007): Well I would go for the one I like the most regardless of what's "right." Go with the one who you find cooler, cuter, and excites you the most, regardless of whether he believes in dates or not. Who cares? You are so young it is not going to matter anyways. You are not looking for a husband! Go for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007): You know Jake likes you and he sounds like he wants a girlfriend, but what is a girlfriend at your age? I personally think you are too young to settle for the attentions of just one boy, keep them both as friends and nothing more and you will come out ahead.....boyfriends/girlfriends at this age is not much more than a label, and one that passes in a hurry, but you are learning about relationships, so be careful of other people's feelings when you decide to go after some guy, generally it is best to let them come up to you and ask you out....then you will know for sure how they feel.
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reader, penta +, writes (10 September 2007):
Choose your girlfriend over the guys and don't go after Bob. Whether he likes her or not doesn't matter; she's liked him for a while. To date him now could hurt her feelings.
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