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writes:Should I be concerned if my boyfriend messages random girls on the internet?
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reader, mum2be  +, writes (13 September 2007):
Ah i see, well you need to tell him how you feel, and if he wont listen to you, then im sorry to say but he not the right man for you
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007): Heck yea you should be mad. Why is he so bored that he spends all day on his computer? Why doesn't he go get a job or go to school? Sounds like a loser to me. It's not that he's tired of you, it's that he's the kind of guy who would rather chase 16 year olds than to be a mature, upfront man in an exclusive relationship. Maybe 16 year olds are more mentally on the same level as he. That's probably why he talks to them. He needs to get a life and you need to go get a real man.
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reader, sexi  +, writes (10 September 2007):
 Hi
In cases guys wouldnt want to do anything to upset their gfs.So you should just tell him that you dont like the idea and that you would prefer it if he stopped doing that.
Regards,mail if you wanna talk
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (10 September 2007):
 Well it depends on the nature of these messages. If they are friendly its OK, but if there not you should do something about it.
Just talk to him and tell him its upsetting you a little.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe thing is my boyfriend is 22 and recently I caught him messaging 16-17 year olds on different webpage accounts he has. He's made these pages behind my back but I found them and confronted him. He knows I hate it when he does this but he keeps doing it saying they're just friends and that it's not as bad. He says they all know they have a girlfriend but I find that hard to believe because I know for a fact he doesn't tell them he has a girlfriend UNLESS they ask. And every time he lies to me about how he's met them always saying he's met them through a friend even though I know he's met them online. My boyfriend is the type of guy who can stay on the computer from morning to late night without any complaint. He goes on the internet all the time and stays on for hours and hours everyday like that. He says he gets really bored so he spends most of his time in front of the computer. I think that's the main reason why he messages girls. However, the fact of him messaging those girls that are way younger than both him and I makes me uncomfortable. Like why that young? I feel like he's getting tired of me. I'd tried talking to him about it but it seems like things are going no where. One time he got mad at me for talking to some guy that messaged me first. I thought it was fine because we were just having a normal friendly conversation and besides, he was talking to random girls too so I didn't feel bad. He ended up getting very upset saying I shouldn't be talking to him and that the fact I was conversating with him was wrong.
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reader, mum2be +, writes (10 September 2007):
NO, blokes do it.... but if you are concerned about it, then confront him and say that it's upsetting you.
all the best
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