A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am totally falling inlove with this guy...i am 14. I know you'll be saying like are you sure you are falling inlove?? Yea i am hehe. It's nothing like i've ever felt. No crush...he is always in my mind and i feel totally comfortable around him iv known him since i was like a baby so...but we just met up about a month ago. For a long time i hadnt seen him,years. He has been in my head everyday since. I am getting such mixed signals from him i don't know what to do. What should i say?!?!?! At first i knew, now i am totally lost!Please help DearCupid...i love you all for helping xxxx
View related questions:
crush Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007): Hun, I won't go into trying to explain the difference between the angst of teen love and the solid basis of a mature, adult love, which takes months of everyday exposure and dating to get to real love. You are learning about love relationships because you are young, vibrant, and this is a stepping stone to developing yourself in preparation for adulthood, in a few years. Your have feelings of love for this boy that are genuine to you and we need to respect that. I just want to say that anytime you are getting 'mixed signals' from a boy..there could a lot of possibilities. He could be very, very shy or he is unsure about dating, or maybe he has another interest. You need to find out this information before you pursue this any further. I know you love him, I know you think about him but you have to stay real about this. If I were you, perhaps the best thing to do is wait patiently and take this day by day. Watch and observe, Is he dating someone else..does he seem interested in you? Or you can be real brave and just ask him how he feels about dating you. You have choices. If you want to share with us..."exactly what he's doing" (his actions)that is giving you mixed signals...let us know.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhes just 15 xx
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007): How old is this guy, hun? Knowing his age might help us to understand why he's giving you mixed signals.
...............................
|
