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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My "boyfriend" lives in another city and went on vacation with his family and sister/niece/nephew from another country for 2.5 weeks, so the last time I saw him was on August 12. While on his trip, he only e-mailed me once and text messaged me once. After he returned on Sep 5, I told him I felt neglected and that it felt like he didn't miss me. He apologized and said it was his fault, and that he was sorry he made me feel that way, he was overloaded on the trip. I didn't expect him to come down the weekend of Sep 8 since I knew he would be tired, so I asked if he would be coming this weekend. He said his boss has a pot roast dinner this Saturday night, so he was thinking of coming down the next weekend. I was really pissed off when I heard that, because I haven't seen him for a month, and the fact that this doesn't seem to bother him at all suggests that he doesn't really love me even though he said that he does. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007): hey,I know how you feel, I've been there but the thing is some times (even though we don't like it) things come up and we cant always see or talk to the person we are dating. My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, and honestly feel luck you can see him in person, it's been three months since I last saw my boyfriend in person and I wont untill July 2008 (he lives in a different country). Just remember that just because he gets busy and cant call or see you (specialy when he is with family) it DOES NOT mean he doesn't care about you.
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reader, sexi  +, writes (10 September 2007):
 Hi
It is normal for you to feel neglected. You need to speak to him and let him that if he continues the way he is, this is going to distance you from him and there woukd not be much of your relationship left. Ask him what his intentios are, whether he would want you to move in without him or not as he is being unfair to by not spending time with you. Speak to him and then you can decide.I know guys can be really difficult at times.
Good Luck,mail me if you wanna talk
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