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writes:i wrote before saying about this boy i am seeing and he has a girlfriend, but this boy is my best mates brother. my best mate does not know what is going on i just dont have the guts to tell her. i really do like him and i know it would work with me and him, but the only problem is what to do with my best mate and his family would not like us, but my mum said that he is the only one she wants me to be with. no-one knows about us. i want to tell poeple about us but i am scared of what they will say?
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reader, XxAnGelXxx +, writes (21 June 2008):
 Well firstly you say that he has already got a girlfriend? I'd say there isn't no point of going round shouting it from the rooftops just yet considering that he's already in a relationship? And you dont exactly know what's gonna happen with that? And dont set your eyes on someone that your mum say's that you should be with, its your decision at the end of day love, if even if you did get with this guy and your if friend, his sister, is as good as a friend she seems, then of course she's gonna be a bit funny about it to start with, but once i guess she's got over the initial shock of her best mate and brother getting it together then im sure she'd be fine with it, and the rest of the family would follow, but think carefully here, cos if he's already with someone at the present then he could go and cheat on you or ditch you for someone else, and i guess that'd complicate your friendship with his sister even more so, it would just be plain awkward. So be wise about this! And good luck in whatever choice you make :)
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