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I think I am pushing him away! How can I stop being so paranoid?

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Question - (13 November 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 November 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I like this guy who used to live near me before he went to uni five hours away from me. He said he liked me and hes back at christmas and we were going to "get together" then. he used to come on msn every night and talk to me for hours but recently he hasnt been on and we will go 3 weeks at a time without talking. I sent him an e-mail about 3 weeks ago asking if i had done something wrong and he said no he was just busy. So i left it, he came online and we chatted but then the same again. I e-mailed him last night asking the most stupid question that i already knew the answer to which was is he seeing someone else which was a no like i thought. But i could tell i had annoyed/ upset him because he used my name instead of the shortened version or "Hun" which he usually uses. I know im paranoid and that im untrusting but only because i dont have a clue what hes up to and because we arent in a relationship hes free to go off with other girls which i dont want at all. What can i do to stop being so paranoid and prevent myself from pushing away which im scared ive done.....

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A female reader, rockelle United States +, writes (15 November 2007):

rockelle agony auntWell I think that you asked a valid question. Was he seeing soemone if you and him are friends what is wrong with asking a question. It sounds to me like he is not very interested. I would forget about him.

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