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36-40,
*attnev
writes:I met this girl on match.com and we were getting on fanstatic and we were getting quite close. We were dating for about a week or so and we got onto the subject of what we thought about each other and i curiously asked whether she wanted a relationship in the future. she said probably and said "lets see how things go" but since then she has been totally off with me and she told me that she wants to cool things down because she thinks i want a relationship asap (which i dont) and that shes not ready. i've tried talking to her and reasure that i dont want one yet either but things just seem to get worse. what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, evelangel  +, writes (13 November 2007):
 Hey
Wow this is a tuff one.
Its sounds to me like she doesnt know quite were she wants the relationship so i think you need to be up front about it and just ask her straight out.
If she gives you a mix answer then you will need to tell her that your not understanding were she is coming from, then that will give her space to explain it and she wont feel like you pushing her.
Hope this helps
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