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writes:I'm really ready to have sex with my man soon. The thing is he's done it loads before and I'm still a virgin, I've told him I'm not but now I'm wondering can he tell if I am or not when we are doing it? I know it's going to hurt but will it be during the sex or after, and will I bleed at the same time as the sex or after the sex has finished? There's so many questions I want to ask but the list is endless and this is the one bugging me the most.please help xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2007): some girls do, some don't. Chances are it will hurt when you are having it and for a while after, that is if you ahven't broke your hymen ( a thinck pit of scin in the opneing of your vagina) the blood will happen for about 3 hours after youve had sex. it isn't like a period, just specs of blood.
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reader, sexi  +, writes (14 November 2007):
 Hi
Personally mail me and i would answer all your questions for you. With regards to this question it depends, some do bleed and others dont. You should just relax and enjoy every moment. If you are tense it is likely that you would experience more discomfort then when you are relaxed. If you are one that would bleed then you would start to bleed when your hymen is broken and you would continue to bleed after sex. The amount of blood does vary. Hope this has helped you.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2007): I'm not a woman, but according to almost every source in human history... yes.
When the Hyman breaks for the first time there is some amount of pain and bleeding. But it's only temporary.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2007): He will probably be able to tell that you are a virgin if he knows what he is doing. It depends on you whether or not it will hurt but my guess is that it will. The first time a girl has sex it usually is somewhat painful, there is some blood (usually not that much), and it probably wont be that enjoyable. I suggest that you tell your boyfriend because he should take it easy on you since it will be your first time.
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reader, Agony Aunt Saskia +, writes (13 November 2007):
Everyone is different but from my own experience and when discussing with people who I know, yes there is going to be blood when you have sex, but you may not on your first time, as you are probably aware your virginity is a layer of skin inside the vagina and when you break it, like any other skin on your body it will bleed. Don't be worried about anything and there is absolutley no way you can do sex wrong! if you are worried your partner may not be enjoying himself, or just to reassure yourself, ask him! the more you do it the more you will get to know what each of you like. Personally I think you should let him know that you are a virgin because you don't want to ruin things between you and it may do that as he may feel betrayed. As for hurting during sex, without being too rude, you are having a penis enter your body for the first time and then theres the moving element so it will hurt you but it isn't a lasting pain. This is why I feel you should tell your partner you are a virgin because if it is uncomfortable for you on your first try he will understand when you ask him to stop. If you do bleed the blood will come out when he removes his penis so maybe you could lay a towel underneath you. I hope I have helped you out a bit so just relax and go with the flow.
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