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writes:My boyfriend and I are in high school and have been going out for a while. We are preparing for the big prom. We are both looking forward to this special time together. Because, my boyfriend has been so nice and caring about me over our time dating throughout high school I said that I would plan the evening for us. This is my gift to him. I want this night to be very special and as perfect as it can be. I have made plans for a limo to pick us up. I have bought my dress and have gone shopping with him to help him get his outfit. As part of the prom the dinner and dance is planned. I will look forward to having this special dinner and dance with him. It will be fun. Where I need your advice is for planning after the prom. As I said I want to make this evening very special for both of us. The best gift I can give him after the prom is lovemaking. How can I do this? I have had sex but did not enjoy it because it was not special. I have not made love but would like to on the evening of the prom. My boyfriend has not had sex. My gift to him would be an enjoyable sexual experience. I feel that we are both ready to take this next step in our relationship. We have talked about the risks and are willing to accept them. Here is where I need your advice. Where should/could our lovemaking take place where we can focus on each other and not have any distractions? I want him to feel like we are the only two people in the world. How and when should I let him know of this gift that I want to give him? How can I ensure that this is lovemaking and not just sex? How long should we spend making love after the prom? What advice do you have about sex positions we could use?Thank you,Amy Ginn Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008): what to do when you have acne on your back and shoulders and are afraid to wear a dress that will show it?
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (13 November 2007):
 Hi,
You sound like you want everything to be ideal. An in an ideal world it would be. Unfortunately in real life you have to negotiate real obstacles.
There are no guarantees that his first time with you will be a special occasion.
However if you both care for each other very much then you are three quarters of the way there.
He will be inexperienced so you wont get the mind blowing sex committed couples enjoy. Just take it really easy tell him that you want your night to be special and something you both will remember ( he should get the hint ).
And don't forget to bring condoms.
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