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Youth Camp

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Question - (13 November 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 November 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

During breaks from school I go to a youth camp. Last summer was a special time for me as I met a cute boy at camp. At the beginning we hit it off and started hanging out in groups and then spend more time together-just the two of us. We started exchanging cute notes and flirting at the camp. Before the end of camp we made out (fully clothed) and exchanged some passionate kisses. I really enjoyed being close to him and like his kisses. We are both 17 years old. Before leaving camp we exchanged e-mail address and now write each other often. I have not seen him since the camp but often dream of us. We have planned on being at camp next summer. We will both be 18. I have decided that I would like him to be my first and to have sex with him. How should I let him know of my desire? How would I find out if he wants the same thing and where I stand with him?

When we arrive again at camp I do not know how soon we should have sex. Probably not the first week or two. Should it be done towards the middle of the camp or near the end as a final thing to do together? If, we had sex toward the middle of the time at camp perhaps we would have a chance to do it more than once. Do you have any advice as to how soon we should have it?

We have not seen each other in the nude. How can I make being nude comfortable for both of us?

One other thing is to figure out a time and a place at the camp that we could be alone and in private to have sex. Do you have any advice on this? We will not be able to leave the camp to do this. I like the idea of having it in the natural environment that the camp offers. How can we have it in a natural environment and not be open to the public?

How can I make our sex good, beautiful, enjoyable, and a wonderful experience for both of us?

I appreciate your time.

Cheers,

Rachael Smithe

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A female reader, rockelle United States +, writes (15 November 2007):

rockelle agony auntI am assuming that you will be returning to this camp next summer. Which is a approximately a year away. It would be very hard to finalize any plans for something that is so far off. There are a lot of things that can happen in a year and you may have changed your mind by then or vice versa. So I would contiue to keep in touch but I would wait until you guys get back to camp to see how things work out and to see if you plan still sounds like a good idea after time has passed.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007):

dont do it in the first week. get to know him more and start getting comfortable with eachother again. then start exchanging paasinate kisses again. in the second weekk. then well i dont know where to do it as i cant see the camp. but im sure you`ll find a far away corner late at night, you could always at the end of camp if you have a spare week or a few days, bbok into a hotel together or someting

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