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*abian_rap_more
writes:I have feelings 4 my best friend and i was planning to tell her soon but i found out that she likes one of my friends and they went out but they stopped cause he was actin like a jerk. She told me that she still has feelings for him and i am sure he still has feelins for her. I am not that close to this guy, we just talk and stuff. I tried talking to him but he just told me to back off. I really want to start dating my friend but i dont want this guy to become my enemy. I am really confused and i dont know what to do. Pls help
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reader, fabian_rap_more +, writes (17 November 2007):
fabian_rap_more is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthx..........i really hope she gets over him
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reader, Asexy  +, writes (15 November 2007):
 Take a deep breath and give it a few weeks. It sounds like she needs time to get over him anyway, and you don't want to be "rebound guy." In that time they will either figure out that they want to try again or she'll be over him. (Fingers crossed that it's the latter.)After a couple of weeks have passed, ask her to lunch. At lunch, let her know that you like her as more than a friend, and would like to give it a chance. Tell her you've felt that way for a while, but wanted to give her space until she got over the other guy (girls like a guy who's sensitive to her needs).Good luck.
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