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writes:I am 47 a housewife and is going through divorce at the moment. The life with my husband in the last year is a nightmare. He didnt help me with anything I need at home and gave me less month every month. Sex life is not exist. I was on the verge of break down. I met this man during my divorce. He is 18 years older than me. He has good income. He is a great help while I am going through my divorce. He does take my pain away. He helps to fix things broken down in my house pick my daughter up from work at weekends and take me to do my weekly shopping. He is happy to do these little things and spend £30 on my birthday and at Christmas. The thing is he wont spend more than that. He is mean with money but is better than my husband. I wasnt very happy with the way he looks at money at he beginning. But as time goes we've been together for 9 months now. I dont mind and enjoy his company rather thinking about his money attitude. Am I stupid to settle with someone who love money more than me? Please advise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2007): you should honestly stop depending on men for money, and get a job on your own, and move on! both of them are selfish to an extent. stop being so Dependant on them. move on.
or something that is more lenient.
why don't you back off a little from him, and find a job on your own. have him as a friend, but no more, if you need sex, then go by him once in a while. but do NOT be Dependant on him. if you find a better man, then move on. but DON'T lead him on either saying your his g.f.
just be good friends with benefits.
but whatever you do, do not be Dependant on him.
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reader, whiteshadow +, writes (13 November 2007):
 Money shouldnt matter in any relationship!!
No offence but the amount of age 40+ wives i see everyday on here asking the same thing.its crazy. It really shouldnt matter. Why isnt £30 enough at xmas?? the thougth counts. he helpes you out mentaly and physically but you want more??? he even picks YOUR daughter up? im sorry but your question makes me so frustrated. i just dont udnerstand it. he sounds amazing and you should appreciate what you have cos if you complain for mroe you will end up losing the lot and then how would you feel?!?!?!
My boyfriend used to earn over £800 a week, Now he has no job or money and cant afford to buy anything or spend anything on me. But i dont care. He gives me love and affection and will be back on his feet career wise when he can and is ready but even when he does i dont expect nothing off him ever...
Please rethink what you really want out of this relationship mentally
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