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male
age
41-50,
*rigger29
writes:i am a gay male and i have a crush on a m8 in work. we hang around together in work and he knows i'm gay but he is straight (so he says). we went for a drink on our break last fri and back in wrk he was a bit tipsy and he asked if i wanted to go for a drink with him after wrk. we were out with his friends and i spent the night in his house but nothing happened! i felt that he wanted to in wrk when he asked me to go for a drink and then he chickened out after. i just want to know if i should tell him i have a crush. i want him to know, tho i'm sure he's guessed, but i'm afraid of ruining our friendship! please give me some advice on what to do. should i tell him? thanking u in advance...
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reader, rockelle  +, writes (13 November 2007):
 Does he send any signal to you that he is interested in that way? Where did you sleep when you spent the night? Does he have a girlfriend? Have you kissed, held hands? This guy may just like to hang out with you and look at you as just a friend, if you pursue him and he is not interested then he will freak out. Or he could be interested but does not know how to approach you. I would just enjoy having him as a friend until he gives you a clear indication that he wants to take it to another level.
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reader, Imani +, writes (13 November 2007):
First I won't to say I love gay people I have a gay brother that's 19 but I think you should tell your friend that you like him personaly I think he like you so I say go for it before someone else get him GOOD LUCK
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