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anonymous
writes:i am a male late 20's living with my girlfriend late 20's in the beginning our sex life was very good however a few months ago it steadily declined and is now at once a month ( your not going to bug me for a while are you ) sort of stuff.i have raised my concerns but i have been repeatedly told she is not interested in sex full stop, problem is she hasn't tried or responded to any efforts to build a mood. Massages, candlelit dinners etc.. etc.. She gets angry when I say i feel unattractive and that she isn't into me anymore but i really can't see any other reason. My experience says that if she just gets angry when i try to talk about it which I have over the months it tells me she isn't interested in working on it.My next problem is we are planning to go overseas together in two months but right now I feel that with our relationship in the state it is it feels like she may be hanging onto me until such time as she can leave O/S not to mention she has cheated in the past so what happens when someone she is interested in pops up overseas. I really don't want to get my heart broken this way.She tells me it isn't a problem and gets angry and storms off when I try to explain my situation and I have not found a way through whcih tells me it's a matter of her no longer finding me attractive. My questiosn is why won't she just break up with me if she knows this ? or is it possible she is using me for my flat and car etc... to avoid having to find somewhere to live before going overseas.how do i approach this ?
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reader, rose_corday  +, writes (14 November 2007):
 hun she is using you. its wrong and its a sad thing to go through. But you need to be strong and stand up for yourself. I think she already has someone or wants to meet someone else. I also think the reason she gets mad is cause she knows you know. Sorry i cant be much help. But good luck!
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reader, Imani +, writes (13 November 2007):
She is USING YOU BIG TIME for whatever it is she want but when the right one come she's leaving you and she seeing someone and having sex with someone else I know this for sure
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2007): If she is not willing to talk to you about it with out her getting mad. Then you need to think about breaking it off. before this hurts you even more. cause right now. it does sound like she is only with you cause she has it easy. Dont let her use you anymore. tell her how you feel. If she wont listen to you or even care. then tell her its over.
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