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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My best friend broke it off with her boyfriend who I then became really good friends with. We would meet up and get along really well until on a night out, my best friend went home early and this guy came back to mine. We just kissed but then it started up feelings which I had never felt for him before. We decided to keep it a secret and two days later she said she was still in love with him. He told her there was someone else now and he finially said no to her. Then he went to see her and she told him again how much she loved him so he ended it with me. I don't know how I feel about him anymore. I can't tell him or her about it. I feel guilty about going behind her back and I can never tell her. How can I know if I like him and if I do how can I get over him???
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (13 November 2007):
 hey,WOW i can't beleive this!
you call her your best freind!why are you still talking about your feelings towards him!?
what you did will be the number 1 reason to ruin your freindship!DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT getting back with him, even if you love him. it isn't fair to your bestfreind ! you have betrayed her!i don't think you will be happy if your ' best freind' did the same to you!( i don't think you care about freindship or her feelings).
MOVE ON, if you tell him how you feel it will make things much worse!just think about someone else and keep him of your mind!
bye!
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