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writes:I'm 16 and she's just turned 14 plus long distance, can it work, is it wrong?Basically, I'm 16 and she's just turned 14 and i need to know is it wrong baring in mind that we're in it for dating until she's old enough but even so is it wrong because of the age agp and then also there's the fact that we live about 80 miles away but i will be able to drive soon... i'm asking you this becuase we both really like each other and both could spend along time together if it all goes through, she's perfect for me and apparently i'm perfect for her so age and distance are just stopping us... PLZ HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): I know exatly how you feel because I am in the same sitiauon just do what feels right
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): Hey Im 14 and i started talking to my bf a couple of months ago.....He's 16.
He lives on the other side of the country but hes my bestfriend's bestfriend.
Lol my bestfriend used to live in California with him but then he moved here.
My bf is coming for christmas, and honestly, the best things in life are worth waiting for.
If you really love her, you'll wait to see her.
The long distance will probably make you love her even more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAAwww thx and yea we do really love each other i mean liek i only met her liek a few times but i never felt like this with any1 else not even the girl i was with for like 7 months
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reader, AnnaW219 +, writes (18 November 2007):
 2 years distance please when i was 13 i was with a 16 year old adn im 15 now he is 18 so we've been together for to years ive got a kid with him but thats ok im not scared at all i was but im not now you will soon get over the age dif and the long way thing i meen im 16 in soon and im moving in with him so i no what your going through aswell he had the same thing we was a long time away hes 3 years older then me we was so worried but he talked to me my family aproved his family approved so its ok dont be afraid it will work if you love eack other
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007): ermmm hello no i dont think its wrong my boyfriend is 16 and im 14 i found out i was 5 mounths pregnant last week and hes over the moon more than what i can say for my mother i dont think its wrong at all!! listen to ur heart trust me and gd luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCheers everyone we're going to go for it as in the end you only live once. :)
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reader, Imani  +, writes (13 November 2007):
It don't matter about the age you only two years older than her that's not bad my boyfriend is two years older than me and I don't think long distance relationships really work for a long time
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reader, Jammy6026 +, writes (13 November 2007):
 I suppose it all goes down to your personal preference. If you want the relationship to work and strive to make it work, then it will work. But if you doubt it, it may not.
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reader, rachy-baby-helps +, writes (13 November 2007):
 Well, no it's not wrong, if you really like each other then distance shouldn't get in the way. My boyfriend lives 200 miles away and we have been together a year, so it can work. Try meeting with your parents at a place half way between you both. Make it clear to both sets of parents that you are only in it for dating. As long as you are both certain this is what you want then nothing should stop you.
Good Luck :-)
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