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writes:Help! I have not seen my ex for 6 months. The other day, a buddy told me he had seen her at a store we used to work together at, talking to a former colleague(female)..my buddy told me she looked pregnant, or she had put alot of weight on..he said she looked like she was or had been crying... of course, I am concerned... perhaps she may be, and she doesn't want me to know, or maybe she isn't and was upset... however, if I call her, or e-mail, what am I? I want to go by her work to visit and see for myself if she is pregnant, and to see her... is this ok??We never parted badly, and I consider her a friend, although we've had no contact...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007): Just because you are not in a relationship with her and even if its been 6 months does not mean that you stop caring about her. I think you should send an email to her asking how shes been, it may be that she has a few problems and you can be there for her. I dont see how she could ever take it badly or in the wrong way. Its a nice gesture even if you dont get a reply.I hope she confides in you, you may be able to help.All the best!
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (13 November 2007):
 If you care about her and you two are still friends there is no harm in getting in touch. Call her and see how she is doing. That is what a friend would do. It sounds like you still might have alot of deeper feelings for her because it seems to worry you alot that she was crying.
I would say good for you. Let her know, it might be just what the doctor ordered. If she is pregnant she could be in need of a good friend. If you are reluctant to call her then email first and give her your number. She can call you if she chooses.
Best wishes and God bless your friendship to it's fullest potential.
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