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writes:Hi, I just want to get some opinions on this issue. If you are in a relationship/marriage but find it lacking as much affection as you would want (but not as far as your partner is concerned,) do you think it's okay to look elsewhere for a bit extra "entertainment" or do you believe a better way of dealing with it would be to buy a rabbit, shut up and make the most of your free time with your new "best friend"? Reply to this Question
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reader, trigger29  +, writes (13 November 2007):
i reckon if you are thinking about cheating on him then eventually you will. i was in a similar situation and i knew the love wasn't there anymore so i left him. i was thinking of cheating too and that's when i knew it was over.
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reader, Bounce  +, writes (13 November 2007):
There's only so much a rabbit can do... you'll get bored and seek something elsewhere.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2007): USE THE RABBIT (I am assuming you mean the sex toy)!! Do not go out looking for other entertainment. That is wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2007): I've just asked my other half for her opinion on your question, and she is of the opinion that you should buy yourself a Rabbit - and a dog - and take the dog for frequent walks!
Not much help I know - but she IS blonde!
Phil
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reader, Star_07  +, writes (13 November 2007):
 I dont suggest that someone should turn away from the relationship/marriage and seek entertainment elsewhere. I think the best way to deal with it is to talk to your significant other, tell them how you feel. If that doesnt work, then you would have try other things, like plan dates or outtings that would allow you two to spend time together. If all that doesn't work and you are committed, then perhaps you can go hang out with your close friends or start a hobby-which is probably good to have anyways. If this is not the case, then you need to re-evaluate. How unhappy are you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2007): The best way of dealing with it MIGHT be addressing the issue directly with your partner and being honest. Without the honesty and open communication its only going to get worse.
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