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female
age
41-50,
*azzie1
writes:A little confused about my boyfriend if he truly loves me. We've been together for 2yrs 1/2 and we were making love when all of a sudden he whispered in my ear that he would love to see his best friend have sex with me cuz he's like a brother to him.Mind you I've never spoken about me being with another man just another female. I wanted to have a threesum but not with another man. The other scenario is that I found his next door neighbor's phone# on his cell the reason i know this is because she told me. I didn't think anything of it but now all of a sudden he say's that his neighbor was going to get rid of her cat and since we needed one he said if he could have it and she said yes..should I be worried the guy is home all day because he got injured on the job and she doesn't work either.
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reader, girlwhoneedshelp  +, writes (13 November 2007):
 I think you should definitely be worried. I mean what sort of creep fantasises about his best mate sleeping with his girl? For most guys this is their ultimate nightmare. It's quite obvious that he is just seeing you as property not as a girlfriend. He has claimed you as his and would now love to share you with his closest friend. Don't let him pass you around. You are better than that. As far as it goes about the neighbour maybe he is telling the truth and there is nothing going on. On the other hand from his past history it could be quite possible that he is doing the dirty with your neighbour. After all sleeping with another woman behind your back is pretty normal compared to wanting to see you with his best friend. You need to sit down and talk with him and ask him to be honest and visualize you with his best mate. I can't understand how he would possibly get any enjoyment from this at all. Tell him that you are not willing to make this fantasy real as it disrespects everything that you as a woman stand for. If he doesn't like what you tell him, get rid.
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