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*ammy6026
writes:Hey, I'm 15 and i'm currently in a relationship with a girl my age. We've been together 2 months now and we still find it hard to talk to each other directly.We mostly hang around with her mates and i don't mind that but i think its stopping me and her from talking.Any Advice on how i can talk to her?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Jammy6026 +, writes (16 November 2007):
Jammy6026 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well, we feel we can talk more to each other now. Thanks people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2007): HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Hope you have a great day, together!xx
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reader, Jammy6026 +, writes (13 November 2007):
Jammy6026 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice everybody.. Its my birthday tomorrow, ideal opportunity to invite her to tea with me
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2007): Why dont you two go for a walk in the local park. Have a picnic, yes, i know we are heading for winter, but it could be fun. Maybe a trip to Pizzahut or one of those places on a Saturday afternoon. Sit and have a chat away from the whole gang of friends that she has around her. Can you not maybe watch tv and one of your houses, or babysit, during the day on the weekend for a relative. You could have a chat then. Might be a bit disrupted by the child but at least the gang wont be there.
take care
xx
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reader, DIE-romantic. +, writes (13 November 2007):
 Dont worry about it, my friend has been with her boyfriend for nearly 6 months and they still have awkward moments where they find it hard to talk to each other. I think you should just try and come out of your shell abit, you know, make the first move sort of thing. That way you may find she will ease up, and it will get easier as the time goes on.
Good luck xxx
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reader, Soozy +, writes (13 November 2007):
What you need is some time together alone. Spend some time at each other's houses, away from your parents and friends. Play some music together and start your chat about that song. Sometimes it is better to start a conversation with a favourite song playing in the background as opposed to an awkward silence. Relax, get in the mood beforehand. You will find then that talking comes easily.
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reader, Asexy  +, writes (13 November 2007):
 Ask her to lunch.
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reader, whiteshadow +, writes (13 November 2007):
 phone/text her. If shes your gf im assuming you would have her number :)
Tell/ask her if she would like to go somewhere wer u both can spend some time together alone as you would like that very much!
If you dont have her number and she is with ehr friends for whatever reason. Be brave n ask her to her face if she would like to go somwhere just together :)
Im sure she will defo say yes!!
good luck mate :D
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