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writes: This may seem really stupid, but I was wondering, how do you ask someone out? What type of things do you say? Is it "will you go out with me" or something like "will you be mine" My friends are really pressuring me to ask this girl out in my class I fancy but am worried of being rejected. What do I say? Reply to this Question
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (14 November 2007):
 O.K. dude, forget the "will you be mine" stuff.
What you do is find out what she is interested in. Teenage girls love going to the movies with friends , so find a "chick" flick that's playing and ask her " what are you doing on the weekend, I was going to go to a movie would you like to come with me?". Don't take her to a smash em up action film. If she's into horror films you got it made buddy as she just might want to hold onto you during the scary parts.
It's never easy asking a girl out mate, but its like trying anything new, once you get over the first hurdle it starts to become easier.
Be brave and go for it.
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reader, pavel38  +, writes (13 November 2007):
Don't let your friends pressure get to you for starters, because if you like this girl & want to ask her out you want to come over calm, cool & chilled, & not a nervous, gibbering wreck !. & on that note don't be worried about being rejected, if she declines then so be it, ok so your friends might take the mick abit but I'm sure all of them have been rejected & will be rejected again & you'll laugh at them !.
As for what to say, keep it quite relaxed & not too pressurised, saying "will you be mine ?" sounds very full-on & OTT. If you know the girl & share a common interest then just have a normal conversation with her & then say "hey, I was thinking of going to so & so, fancy coming along with me ? - I'd like to hang out with you/get to know you better" - that way you're not making a big deal of it whilst demonstrating to her that you're interested in her.
Good luck.
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