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Help, I'm in a love triangle.

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Question - (13 November 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 November 2007)
A female New Zealand age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Help, I'm in a love triange..

My best friend goes out with this lad. He used to fancy me but I was with someone at the time now he has grown on me and we both really like each other. I know it's wrong but we're both considering an affair, that's even worse I know but I don't know how we can both get over each other. It's like I try to tell my self he is a friend and I don't like him but it's difficult. I've asked close friends and they say "what she don't know won't hurt her". Help!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2007):

Just finish with the lad you are with first and have the decency not to cheat on him. He doesnt deserve to be treat like that. How would you feel if he did that to you, gutted, er so why do you want to do it to him. He is human and hurts just the same as you!!! dont be labeled a slag and do this to him.

take care

xx

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A female reader, lilgirly Lebanon +, writes (13 November 2007):

lilgirly agony aunthey,

don't do it. please don't!

it will defenetly ruin everything!if he likes you why is he going out with your friend?

even if they broke up don't go out with him!

FREINDSHIP MEANS A LOT MORE THAN SOME GUY! you can meet guys every day, and have crushes every day.

but freinds( best freinds) don't come everyday!

byeXXX

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