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*ngeldelight84
writes:Hi thereMy boyfriend and i have hit a rough patch, we used to spend 7 days a week together for the last 8 months until it started to cause problems like when he wanted to go out with out me i presumed it was because he didnt want me around anymore i just didnt realise that he probably needed some space i was just so caught up in the moment of us being like we were one which is like a lot of new relationships were no one else exists kinda crazy in love! Last week he said he didnt want me anymore, then we had a talk the other evening and he said that if i gave him space for the next few weeks it would prove to him that i can do it, he said he wanted us to be friends and agreed we would see where it leads to. I just think all this can be worked out between us because we do have a very good relationship were we get on really well and never argue. I love him so much and would do anything for it to work, i wonder will me giving him the space he needs help us to get back together, also why would he still want me as a friend if he didnt want a clean break i have been driving myself crazy trying to convince myself that the space will do us good. i just want him back so much i dont know what to do. I feel like calling him but i cant its been 4 days since our chat and i have only one chance to prove myself and i need to get through another 10 before i can call him. So my question is can it workout?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2007): "If you love someone let them be free, if they come back to you then you know it was meant to be"Everyone needs to have a bit of space...give it some time im certain it will work out. He will realise that he does miss you, and remember just because he has other interests that dont involve you doesnt mean he doesnt love you. Its actually healthy for couples to spend some time independant of each other.
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reader, DV1  +, writes (24 May 2007):
 It will definitely work out. It's sweeter when you miss him. You'll enjoy it more when he's around.
DV1
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