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writes:my bf says he loves me on the phone and i believe him, but to my face he can only manage i like you. He can't explain himself. Whats going on? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): well i think that if he says it over the phone but not in person its either one of like threee things!1. he doesnt rele love you /..maybe booty call much?2. he means it, but he just cant say it cus he doesnt want to get whipped or hurt you or get hurt!3. if he cant say it to your face then on the phone he is just sweet talking ya know?i have been through this before if he cant say it t you face to face maybe hes taking advantage of the words I LOVE YOU cus most guys do that cus they dont want to find themself geting hurt cus boys do get hurt and sick over you at times. or he jst doesnt want to be whipped over youcus all his guy friends would be like damn i thought you was a player. ya know? trust me I KNOW WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT.good luck thoughh.and god bless 33333333333~~Cookie~~ 3
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2007): mabey he is embarassed, he probably thinks that if he says it over the phone it wont be so embarassing. Saying i love you is a big thing, he probably feels saying it afects his 'manhood' if he says it to your face
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reader, m698778  +, writes (25 May 2007):
he's just a bit bashful that's all. sooner or later he will say i love you in front of your face. so no worries and concerns. although on the bright side he has deep feelings for you of course!
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reader, nicola79 +, writes (24 May 2007):
 it sounds like he is shy. talk to him about it,and try to make him feel ok by saying it to your face. hopefully he means it,and you can go on to have a loving and happy relationship together. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, love-him +, writes (24 May 2007):
 he could be nervous chick, it is a strong feeling love (not saying he doesnt love you) just wait a bit and i am sure he will come round, youve got so far (him being able to say it on the phone) like Dv said, it is very hard to say it sface to face, as the nerves will kick in. hope i helped, mail me if u wan 2 talk x x x
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reader, DV1  +, writes (24 May 2007):
 It's easy to say over the phone, because you don't have to see their face. He may be nervous, and he may also fear your reaction. He may also be saying it to please you... Voice your concerns to him about it.
Dv
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