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I'm 25 and love a married man who's 52! I know it's wrong but down know what to do...

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Question - (24 May 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 27 June 2007)
A female Nigeria age 41-50, *izc22 writes:

I am 25 and I love a married man that is 52, I know this situation is aweful, but i love him so much, everytime i yell and fight with him saying its over and i cant do it anymore, within a few hours we are talking again, I know it is wrong and I hate myself, but after being sexually involved with him for so long it is hard to let go, he makes me feel loved, we spend time together and he is also very sexy, but God knows I honestly don't want to be with him, it is wrong, he wants me to have his baby, but I am scared, I just dont know what to do, loving another womans husband is ruthless, heeeeeeeeeeeeeeelp.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2007):

This is probably NOT what you want to hear, but I think you deserve love, but with a man that is YOURS, and by yours I mean ONLY yours. This will eventually end in tears.

You dont mention how long the affair has gone on for, but I really dont think he will leave his wife for you. Why should he? This man does not love you, (I'd also say he dosnt love his wife if he can sleep with another woman) Im not being mean, I just think you deserve so much better than him. Hes lying to his wife, which means he could do the same to you. Whos not to say that he has a third or maybe forth woman on the side.

Please end this now, you are betraying someone elses HUSBAND! There are plenty of single men out there who will love you, and you can have him all to yourself

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2007):

Well, i'd go with the first answer.

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A female reader, m698778 Canada +, writes (25 May 2007):

the reason why he wants to be with you is because you are young and probably attractive to his point of view and perspective. if i were u i would look for someone younger like around your own age. it's slighty awful and disgusting your dealing with someone that's a lot older than you and is married, HELLO!!!!! that's is wrong. listen to my advice and break up and go on with your life with someone younger and active! you would feel so much happier and will be satified!!!

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A male reader, AdamPayseno United Kingdom +, writes (25 May 2007):

AdamPayseno agony auntYou answered your own question dear..

It's hard to break away from a loved one..

But it appears that would be the best move to make..

I hope you get through it with minimal pain.

Good luck, A x

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