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writes:It seems to be that none of my expectations of getting emotional and psychological support have been met by my family members. Rather they have been abusing me all this time. Yet i feel addicted to them and get tempted to relate with them to escape the anger and depression of being born in such a dysfunctional family. It is as if, i find it hard to accept the 3 people to be toxic as it is easier for them to prove that i am the one who is abnormal rather, based on their group politics and mind games.. They are sick and i have proved it again and again in front of other members in society. Yet they don't change and are fearlessly performing abusive acts. Should i take any legal help?
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reader, m698778 +, writes (25 May 2007):
yes u should seek help as soon as possible, you should not be treated this way. u should just report them to the authorities, or have them take a class on unabusive. they should be courtesy to you and others and not be abusive or selfish as they are!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2007): From yoru profile it appears you are older than 18- which means you can seek independence from your family. I am in the same situation- my entire family is abusive- I am teh scape goat and I have thought this whole time I am the crazy one when it is obvious... If I were you, seek some counceling and perhaps find a way to move out, or move in with someone else, or move away from the situation- they will never change and you cant change them and you cant really get them arressted- so help yourself and try to cut off contact with them and establish new connections. I hope this helps the best of luck to you.. I know you may be scared but this is for your own well being.
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