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writes:I have recently decided to get back together with my husband which whom i have kids with i love him vey much but we have had such a rocky marriage it has always been on and off. I feel like its me thats putting all effort in i get very moody when he goes out thinking allsorts are we doing the right thing in trying again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2007): i am sorry to hear about your marriage it is a hard deision for you to make but i myelf have a marriage which is on the rocks he says he loves me but does not show it in any sexual or romantic way i have children myself and am married to my husband for 12 years i have a desion to make but we have not split up really ever maybe a day then he comes back the next creeping if you are always splitting up and getting back together maybe it is time you make a permanent decesion as you will only lose your self confidence and no man is worth that a woman does not need a man in her life to servive even though they think we do i wish u the best of luck but please think of yourself as men dont make sure the decision is the right one for you good luck
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reader, cd206 +, writes (25 May 2007):
 Yes I think so. You owe it to your kids. After all, they didn't ask to be born into a marriage that wouldn't work. Talk about your issues with him going out. If you bottle them all up inside then you're bound to be cross and get paranoid etc. Talking doesn't have to descend into an argument. After all, it takes two people for that to happen. Practise in the mirror beforehand so you're calm and know what you want to say and don't raise your voice or get upset.
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