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writes:i am in my mid 30s, female. I have 2 kids and i got divorce long back. now i am happly married again to a younger man who is 6 years younger to me. we also have a year old son. but my problem is that i feel insecure of my marriage, coz my husband is younger to me and i am afraid if he goes another woman. so far it's been good and everything's fine. i am just afraid of losing my husband. i just feel insecure. pl. advice, what should i do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2007): hi im very much in the same boat as you ive been married to my younger husband for 7 years , you cant talk to him about it cause you dont want to show your feeling insecure about it , but you need to talk to some one , i find talking to my mum helps shes my rock as im crippling inside at the thought of my husband leaving me for a younger woman i get days when i feeel so old and remeber hes younger than me and hes a good looking guy and very flirty when you get chatting with him , im at home all the time whilst he works long shifts to pay our debt ive got us into because i found spending money on my self made me feel special as he didnt seem to spend enough time with me ive felt like a single mum for a long time now and all i get is its my fault for getting us into debt , he goes out occasionally with the lads but we never go out together as husband and wife and if i ask he says for me to choose somewhere but when i choose where hes been with the lads round our town we dont go out at all so it makes me wonder why do i bother is it teally worth all the upset im putting my self through , i wish you all the best hope it all works out fine for you and your not the only one whos going through this theres lots of us lasses out here feeling the same .
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reader, nicola79  +, writes (24 May 2007):
 i dont think you have a problem here,its just what is going on in your head. if you carry on like this,you may loose him but not to a younger woman,it will be because you are worried about things that just are not happening.
he will soon sence this and get fed up of it, so do your self and get over this feeling and enjoy your life together sweety.
the only time to worry is if it did ever happen,which i dont think will happen. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, DV1  +, writes (24 May 2007):
 Does he act loving to you? If he comes home to YOU every night, and not someone else, you have nothing to be insecure about. If you're the one he chooses to come home to, he's chosen to make you his world, and nobody else. Instead of spending your time on the feeling of insecurity, spend your time on happy feelngs. Be loving towards your husband, and support him always. You two have created a life, and you have a family. You have everything going for you. Keep your chin up.
DV1
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