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writes:im scared that when my bf and i have sex that he is thinkin of some one else because i just caught him looking at porn yesterday and now it bothers me to be around him andi feel as if he is going to cheat on me what should i do?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (9 July 2007):
 I agree with DV1.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (9 July 2007):
 All guys look at porn. If you have a boyfriend who doesn't look at porn, be very, very worried. It's expected for guys to do that. It in no way means that he's going to cheat on you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2007): No need to feel like he's going to cheat on you for looking at porn. Some guys do, some guys don't. The key for that, is if it bothers you, and you voice that concern to him, he should respect you enough to knock it off. Also, with regards to him thinking of someone else while you two are having sex. Welcome to the world of sex! There isn't a man out there who doesn't think of something else during sex. This is a good thing for you. Lots of men have some sort of thought process that they use to prolong sexual activity. I don't have a proper percentage from a study or anything, but I'd be willing to bet that somewhere in the neighborhood of 7 out of 10 males think about other women while having sex. Now, if he's looking at porn to get stimulated so he is able to have sex with you, you two need to sit down and talk. Not sure if any of this helps, but it's just my .02 cents.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (9 July 2007):
 babe first off, porn is something, many women question, however it is normal, for anyone to want to watch/see a bit of porn.. babe honestly.. just because he is watchin porn doesnt mean he is gunna cheat on yoo, most men and women like and enjoy to watch porn.. it is quite hard to think about someone else during sex, so try and keep your mind from tellin u he is, because that could jeoprodise ur relationship.. mail me if u wanna talk x x xxxx
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